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Redefining Your Soulmate
I’m intrigued by this definition of a soulmate by Rabbi Sharon Brous who leads the wonderful congregation that I belong to:
“In Judaism, your bashert—a Yiddish word that roughly translates to ‘bestowed’—is your destined partner. But I also like the Jewish notion of a hevruta, or learning partner. That’s the person who pushes and challenges you. It’s not about finding someone who completes you; it’s about finding someone who gives you the opportunity to complete yourself.”
What I read into this definition is that it opens up the possibility of a soulmate being not just a romantic partner, but a friend, a teacher, a mentor. And in my life, it’s comforting to know a few people who fit that bill. What do you think about this?
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I love this concept (learning partner )! And one of mine is my best friend from grad school. I’ve learned a lot about real friendship from her. She has challenged me and I’ve learned to be more vulnerable from her.
Hevruta–never heard this term before. I will give this more thought. Thank you for introducing me to it
Btw, never bought into that soul mate business.
I saw my “hevruta” last night. One of my oldest and dearest friends. I told him about the concept and we had a hug over it.
This is an intriguing and beautiful idea. My twin sister is my soul mate and learning partner. And there are others who are not in my life now but who had a huge impact. Thank you, Wendy, for the spacious mental and emotional landscape that you offer us.
It really opens up the idea. I’m so glad it had meaning for you, Liz.
This really resonates with me, and serves as a reminder of what I value most in relationships of all kinds. Thanks for sharing it, Wendy.
I learn so much from all of you. I can’t express how much I appreciate that.