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Painting by Michael Dumontier and Neil Farber




Real Friends

It seems to me that friendship has an outsized role in an unmarried life. Being single for so long, I’ve grown accustomed to relying on a community of people for support. It can be for the small things, like fixing a table lamp (see yesterday’s post), or for the more profound –  an embrace to collapse into during hard times. Both add up to a bountiful existence.

Post-it note by Tanja Hollander




I Have Your Back (and visa versa)

A friend from the Bay Area was visiting over the weekend. He’s mechanically handy and I’m decidedly not. I asked him to take a look at one of my lamps that’s been on the fritz. It took him about a half an hour to disassemble and sort out the problem. And now, the lamp is working like a dream. He was happy to help. I felt so taken care of. I cooked him dinner. Together, we’ll get through this.

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