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The American Dream

statue of libertyBRENT is the fake name my father used to give when he phoned for reservations. He assumed this name because it was easier to spell than Braitman, and it didn’t sound Jewish. At the time, for my first-generation American parents living in the shadow of anti-Semitism, it felt like a safer way to connect with strangers. I longed for my own Wasp-y way out, and fantasized that my husband’s last name would turn me into a Wendy Brent or a Wendy James.

So much for make believe. There was a famous flesh and blood Brent, but she wasn’t a Protestant. Margaret Brent, born in 1601 was a Catholic, who fled England to the American colonies in search of religious freedom. I’ve been keeping tabs on her for my “Single Women’s Hall of Fame,” and was reminded of this yesterday, on the anniversary of the land grant she received on October 4, 1639, which made her one of the first Colonial women to be a landowner. She ended up acquiring almost 1000 acres, some of which she called, “Sister’s Freehold.” She was also a successful attorney and entrepreneur (practically unheard of for a woman) and most notably, 200 years before the organized call for women’s rights, Margaret Brent went in front of the Maryland Assembly and demanded the right to vote. (They said no.)

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  1. Onely says:

    Your story about wanting a husband to give you a WASPy name reminded me of my own naive reasons for wanting to get married: When I was little, I wanted a husband so that could do the taxes and pay bills and all the annoying things grownups have to do. I had an idea that he could do all of that and I could just continue to have fun (I guess I imagined myself watching Scooby Doo and playing tag all the way into my 40’s). Is this regressive or progressive? = )

    Cheers to Margaret Brent,
    Christina

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