Can-Do Spirit
Are you frustrated by a goal you’re trying to reach? Or maybe more than one. I know I am. And so I’m thrilled to have stumbled onto Path of a Doer, which is like having a coach, who speaks in effective short bursts (with a great design sense), whisper secrets of success in your ear. I’ve already discovered a favorite new quote, from George Bernard Shaw, “People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it.” Check it out here (via Matt Jacobs)
10 Traits Unrelated to Being Single
1. Unwillingness to suffer in cramped, high-heeled shoes
2. Perfectly content spending Saturday night alone
3. Wishing someone else would do the flower arrangements
4. Baseball aficionado
5. Zero skill with a nail file, iron or blow dryer
6. Knowing far too much about politics
7. Looking lousy in red lipstick
8. Ability to quickly add in the tip and divide up the dinner check
9. Leaning into conversations
10. More than comfortable making the first move
Image: Floating World by Judith Supine
Grandma, You Were Right. Chicken Soup Works!
A winter cold is closing in on me. I say this, because two people, with whom I’ve recently shared a towel and a handshake, are sick. My tried and true antidote is chicken soup, which has been analyzed by scientists for its cold symptom-reducing properties, and according to the Mayo clinic, it works. I’ve got a pot simmering on the stove right now. This time, I’m trying out a new recipe (with celery root, instead of celery) from the Jewish cook and all around food maven, Arthur Schwartz.
Keeping Up With the Joneses
Today is the birthday of the great writer, Edith Wharton. Her novel, The Age of Innocence, was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for literature in 1921, making her the first woman to win one. She was born Edith Newbold Jones, into a very wealthy family, and the expression, “keeping up with the Joneses,” refers to them. Wharton was friends with the leading artists of her day, including Henry James, who encouraged her to write about the elite New York City she grew up in, even though she despised it. I keep this quote of hers close at hand: If only we’d stop trying to be happy we’d have a pretty good time.
Online Dating and the New Zodiac
A mere seven days into fulfilling my pledge to register for a dating site, I’m already squirming. Having axed Jdate after browsing through 200 profiles without a desire to click for more, I turned to OK Cupid. One of the first screen names to turn up in my search was “pussiologist” from Burbank, which I can only hope has something to do with a love of cats. I also found “lawnmuncher,” which must mean he’s a gardener. Next was “laughing Pisces,” and actually I felt bad for him, because of course, he’s no longer a Pisces, but probably an Aquarius. FYI, there were over 40 men who identified themselves as “Scorpio,” and now I don’t know if that reflects the new Zodiac or not. Maybe I should be adventurous, and find myself an Ophiuchus.
Image: (Old Zodiac) Chart of most common words in star sign predictions
Finding Inspiration from Trailblazers
This has been a week of giants. On Monday, we celebrated Martin Luther King’s birthday, which gave me a reason to watch his I Have a Dream speech. Today is the 50th anniversary of John Kennedy’s stirring address (“ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country.”) And 2 years ago, Barack Obama was inaugurated as the 44th U.S. President.
Image: A tribute to Marie Curie, who pioneered the study of radioactivity, discovered 2 elements (polonium and radium) and was the first person to be awarded 2 Nobel prizes.
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Gratitude in the Morning
When heart-palpitating anxiety grips, it’s often first thing in the morning, before my brain is fully awake. At this groggy moment, I force my attention to gratitude. I pilfered this practice from a 16th century prayer that observant Jews say when they wake up. (Modeh ani – meaning, I give thanks.) Remembering what’s good in my life is a handy way to stop negative thoughts cold in their tracks. There’s my goose down comforter, the early sunlight peaking through wooden blinds, two gorgeous photographs in my direct line of vision, taken by a very talented friend, and the purring cat and sleepy dog, sandwiching me in, lovingly and tight. What are your first thoughts?
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Image: Sunrise by Christopher Gray
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