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What Do You Need to Feel At Home?
There was a time a while back, when I was travelling the world with a lover. We lived in Berlin and used it as a home base for our frequent trips throughout Europe, with occasional jaunts back to the States. For a nester like me, it took awhile to adapt to our nomad lifestyle. We became each other’s anchors. And each new, strange bed became less so, when we were in it together. I didn’t miss that life once it was over. Now, a book, eyeshades and wherever possible, my dog all help me settle in. What works for you?
Feels like Home by Marcos Calamato
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When I had a dog, that was where I considered “home”. Now that I’m really living alone, I’m not sure; I feel like I should use this opportunity to live the nomad lifestyle because I don’t have any responsibilities.
I’m glad I had the nomad experience. It was really exciting and good for my flexibility.
Honestly, I need my own cookware to have a home. The rest is gravy.
When I moved into my new home, the first room I set up was the kitchen. I needed that to work before I could begin to settle in.
I’m on a 4 week trip now and while I’m comfortable wherever I’m staying, I’ve realized I don’t care to cook in other people’s kitchens (not that I’m some fabulous chef), so I guess it’s kitchen for me too. love your blog btw 🙂
I wash dishes wearing rubber gloves because my hands get so dry, and if I know I’ll be cooking on the road, I like to bring them (or buy them when convenient). Thanks, Maria for your kind words. I really appreciate it.
I’m finally beginning to stretch my wings and see the world. Well at least parts of the country I haven’t seen…like my sojourn to the Northwest recently. I always like to bring a book to read to make me feel at home a little more. I might not read it much because I want to get out and explore where I’m at, but when I want to get cozy, I grab my book. And yes, the kitchen is the most important room of any home…I made sure mine was set up first as well!