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How to be a Queen on your Birthday
Years ago I realized that if I wanted to get the birthday I deserved, I would have to organize it myself. Even though I harbor a husband fantasy that a loving spouse would plan the perfect birthday celebration for me, until that actually happens I’m willing to take matters into my own hands. This year, my guest list included lots of couples, and as I was in NO mood to be the 11th wheel on this special day, I excavated an old boyfriend to be my plus 1. It was a risky move, involving plane travel and a sleepover. But I had a hunch it would go well.
Part 2 tomorrow.
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I’m sorry you felt you had to be coupled. Hopefully, there will come a day when singles feel complete and sufficient without an “other.” But I’m glad you had someone to fill in for you in your time of need. Maybe it’s your age. I’m sure I am significantly older than you are and, thankfully, have reached a point where I feel really comfortable as a single person in the midst of couples, especially when they’re my friends. Happy birthday, and I wish you many more!
I’m used to being the only single person in the room, and I’m fine with it. There are so many occasions when I’ve entertained multiple couples and sat proudly at the head of the table. But on this particular birthday, I wanted to mix it up a little with some arm candy. It was a great change of pace.