“Being really in love with someone is sort of like seeing them the way they ought to be seen.” And the fact that we have this as a very isolated experience, most of us, if we’re lucky enough to have it at all, distracts us from the fact that it is another kind of seeing that has a kind of deep grace built into it.” – Marilynne Robinson, talking about her new book Lila.
Illustration by Geoff McFetridge
“Deep grace.” I love that. It implies so much…tenderness, temperance, wisdom and a willingness to separate the proverbial chaff from the grain. Not to mention, “deep grace” implies a love of self…first.
I found Robinson’s comment incredibly interesting. And something I hadn’t thought of before. It’s so forgiving and really wonderful.
oh goodness. this made me cry. (in a good way.)
I heard it on the radio yesterday morning, and was so moved.